You loved him. You trusted him. You lent him RM20,000 when things were good.
Now he’s gone — no closure, no repayment.
But here’s the truth: the law doesn’t care if he’s your ex. If you have proof, you have rights.
Love fades. But debt remains. Let’s talk legal steps.
“He Promised to Pay After His Business Took Off. ”
So many women fall for this line:
💔 “I’ll pay you back after my project clears…”
But when the money’s gone, so is he.
If you have bank transfers, messages, or proof of the loan, you can legally demand repayment.
A promise made in love is still a legal obligation.
“No Formal Loan Agreement… Just WhatsApp Messages and Bank Transfers. Is That Enough?”
You didn’t get anything in writing because you trusted him.
But don’t give up — it’s still possible.
➡️ WhatsApp messages, voice notes, transaction records, witnesses — these can act as circumstantial evidence.
You just need to show that the money wasn’t a gift — it was a loan.
“Was It a Gift… or a Loan? Don’t Let Him Twist the Story in Court.”
Many exes will try this move:
💔 “She gave it to me out of love — it wasn’t a loan.”
But here’s the legal trick:
👉 If he said “I’ll pay you back”, or mentioned a repayment timeline — it’s NOT a gift.
Gifts don’t come with promises. Loans do. And loans can be claimed.
“It’s Been 4 Years. Am I Too Late to Claim My Money Back?”
You’ve waited, hoping he’d do the right thing.
But time is running.
⏳ You only have 6 years to file a legal claim from the date the loan was made (or when the last payment was made).
If you’ve reminded him during that time, that could reset the clock.
Don’t delay. Your rights have a deadline.
“I Asked for My Money, and He Threatened to Leak My Old Photos.”
This isn’t just toxic behaviour — it’s a criminal offence.
💣 If he threatens to blackmail or harass you when you ask for repayment, that’s criminal intimidation.
You can file a police report and a civil suit — at the same time.
We’ve helped women stand up and fight back. You can too.
“I Don’t Want Drama. I Just Want My Money Back — The Right Way.”
You’re not trying to start a war — you just want what’s rightfully yours.
Start with a formal Letter of Demand (LOD) from your lawyer.
If he ignores it, you can file a claim in court.
This isn’t about revenge. It’s about reclaiming your power — with the law on your side.
